BOOKS Recommended By Duane:
The Happiness Trap (Russ Harris, 2008) A book in the self help genre that utilizes Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to assist in the development of psychological flexibility. ACT is a “third wave” cognitive/behavioral therapy that incorporates the techniques of mindfulness into helping people live lives more in accord with their values. Paraphrased, ACT believes that fusion with ones thoughts and feelings and overly strict rules of living (among several other constructs) are significant contributors toward unhappiness. A free first chapter download and useful worksheets and resources can be found here: TheHappinessTrap.com
Get Out Of Your Mind And Into Your Life (Hayes, Smith, 2005) A workbook that isn’t so much about dealing with any particular affliction as it is a learning manual for living. This workbook is useful for discovering the principles for a values-centered life as defined by your values rather than those defined by society or anyone else. Filled with thought provoking exercises to help you get to a place where you can do just as the book title suggests. Written by one of the original author/researchers that developed the empirically tested Relational Frame Theory (RFT) the theory of language and cognition introduced in 1985 which provides the theoretical base for ACT.
F*ck Feelings (Michael Bennett MD, Sarah Bennett 2015) A profanity-filled self-help book that argues that life is rarely what people expect it to be. A very easy read with practical guidance to help you value your actions rather than get trapped by your emotions. (Note that the authors have a very good website as well. fxckfeelings.com)
Undoing Depression: What Therapy Doesn’t Teach You and Medication Can’t Give You (Richard O’Connor, PhD) Is a 1999 self-help book that comes close to having a prescription for living a better life. Simple, clear, and helpful with tips that are actually doable. From the author’s website UndoingDepression.com
“When I was 15, I came home to find that my mother had committed suicide. Until two years before, she had seemed happy, confident and outgoing. When I look back at the course of my own life, I realize now how much it has been shaped by my need to understand what happened to her. I told myself I was tough and smart, and that her illness need not affect me. But when I left home I had no direction except away; and in my 20s and then again in my 40s I suffered through powerful depressions myself.
“I believe now that depression can never be fully grasped by mental health professionals who have not experienced it. Though I can’t claim to know everything about depression, I have a unique and powerful perspective: as a suicide survivor, as a sufferer myself, as a patient, and as a therapist”